Meryl Streep and Don Gummer's Quiet Separation: A 6-Year Jou
Meryl Streep with husband Don GummerMeryl Streep with husband Don Gummer

Meryl Streep and Don Gummer’s Separation

After 45 years of marriage, Meryl Streep and husband Don Gummer have decided to part ways. In a statement released by their representatives, it was confirmed by the news this week that the three-time Oscar winner, aged 74, and Gummer, aged 76, had quietly ended their romantic relationship more than six years ago.

Spokespersons on behalf of Streep have confirmed, “Don Gummer and Meryl Streep have been leading separate lives for more than six years, and although their care for each other remains unwavering, they have made the decision to lead separate lives.”

Although this couple has not been seen together publicly since after the 2018 Oscars, Streep was recently spotted wearing her wedding band at the 2023 Princesa de Asturias Awards in Spain.

Streep and Gummer’s 45 years Love Story

On September 30th, they celebrated their 45th wedding anniversary. Don Gummer, a sculptor from Louisville, Kentucky, first met Streep’s brother in 1978. At that time, she was mourning the loss of her boyfriend, fellow actor John Cazale, who had passed away from lung cancer.

Streep and Gummer's 45 years Love Story
Streep and Gummer’s 45 years Love Story

When Streep and Gummer met, their connection was instant, and they married at her parents’ home just eight months later. Throughout the years, both Streep and Gummer have been relatively private about their love life, but their images together have been captured on several occasions.

While Streep began her journey to stardom on the big screen, Don Gummer found success in the art world. As a graduate of the School of Fine Arts at Boston University and later earning an MFA from Yale University, he has been showcasing his work in exhibitions around the world since the early 1970s.

The Streep-Gummer Love Story behind the Scenes

In a 2002 Vogue interview, Streep provided a rare glimpse into their relationship. According to The Devil Wears Prada star, the secret to their enduring love was “respect and deference—and never saying ‘Thank you.’ They don’t even clear the table unless you say ‘I’m so sorry.'”

She further expressed, “Real life, there’s no comparison to acting. I can’t even say acting is hard because it’s not secretive and sneaky like life. Life is all about not knowing: Is this the right school for this kid? It’s all uncertain.”

While Streep’s private life occasionally surfaces in the limelight, Don Gummer made history in 2012 by being the first person to thank his wife upon winning an Oscar for her role in The Iron Lady.

Streep: Acting, Motherhood, and Life

In 1998, Streep told The Washington Post that playing the role of Isak Dinesen in “Out of Africa” had been the most challenging role of her career. She said, “Modernity. Absolutely. Acting is, definitively, a profession. It is a trade. Motherhood—they don’t say ‘thank you’ for that.

Streep's Acting Life
Streep’s Acting Life

They don’t even clean the table without you saying ‘I’m sorry.’ Real life, there’s no comparison to acting. I can’t even say acting is hard because it’s not secretive and sneaky like life. Life is all about not knowing: Is this the right school for this kid? It’s all uncertain.”

“In everyday life, there’s no manual for parenting; it’s always an unpredictable journey,” she went on. “But I can’t even think about leaving each other.”

Streep’s Gratitude and Cherished Family

“First and foremost, I’d like to express my gratitude to Don. It’s a tradition that when you express appreciation for your spouse towards the end of your speech, they start playing the music to wrap things up, and I want “I want him to be aware that everything I hold most dear in our lives, you’ve bestowed upon me,” she affirmed.

Streep and Gummer have four children together: a son, Henry, and three daughters, Mamie, Grace, and Louisa.


Meryl Streep and Don Gummer’s 45-year marriage has come to an end, a decision that their representatives confirmed recently. Despite their separation, their enduring care for each other remains unwavering. Their love story, which began in the late ’70s, is marked by a whirlwind romance that resulted in four children. Streep, a Hollywood legend, and Gummer, a renowned sculptor, navigated the complexities of both the entertainment and art worlds throughout their remarkable journey. Their enduring love serves as a testament to the complexities and beauty of life and marriage, leaving behind a legacy of respect and dedication.

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